Pricing

What you are actually paying for

You are not paying for techniques, strategies, or motivation.

You are paying for clarity.

For the capacity to sit with what is real —
without trying to fix it, improve it, or escape it.

I have spent more than 30 years in self-knowledge, leadership development, and deep inner inquiry.
Not only through study, but through lived experience.

I suffered.
I searched.

I tried more than fifty different therapies, methods, and approaches.

Some helped.
Many didn’t.

Some even increased suffering — for myself and for others.

What I offer today comes from having seen, firsthand, what works, what doesn’t, and why.

I help you to:

see what you are actually doing (not what you think you are doing)
recognize learned patterns instead of mistaking them for who you are
avoid many unnecessary detours and mistakes I made myself

For those who feel drawn to it, this work can also open into non-dual recognition —
not as something to attain, but as what is already here.

Invest in yorself
and in your relationship

Intro
€ 0
15 minutes

For individuals

Single clarity sessions
€250
50 minutes

Understanding & Change

€ 1000

5 * 50 minutes

For coulpes

Relational clarity session
€ 350
1h 20 min

Couple clarity
€1200
1 couple session 1h 20m
4 individual sessons (2 each)

1 couple session 1h 20m

For groups

Group change
Intentional interviews
Deepen the groups common ground
Inspirational talks
Time depends on project

Economical constraints
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If you can not afford the normal price feel free to talk with me about it. If you do have the ability you can also sponsor people to attend sessions or retreats. Please do contact me. It has papened many times that people or myself sponsor peope with special needs.

Invest in yorself
and in your relationship

For individuals

Single Clarity Sessions – seeing what is actually going on

What it is:

A 50 minute conversation where I help a person to:

see through their mental stories
changing the relation to what's going on
find an inner pause in what keeps spinning

What I don’t do:

I don’t coach toward goals
I don’t give techniques
I don’t “fix” anything

What I actually bring:

the ability to stay steady when someone else cannot
a way of revealing fantasies without shaming or attacking
lived experience of suffering, trauma, relationships, and insight

Who this is for:

people who feel stuck despite therapy, coaching, or “spiritual work”
leaders, therapists, and seekers who are tired of methods

Understanding & Change — clarity over time

What it is:

A series of five individual conversations where the focus is not on quick insight,
but on allowing understanding to settle and change to unfold naturally.

This work supports:

seeing recurring patterns more clearly
noticing how they play out in everyday life and relationships
allowing a different response to emerge, rather than forcing change

What this is not:

a program with steps or homework
a promise of transformation
a method for self-improvement

What I bring here:

continuity and attunement over time
the ability to recognize subtle avoidance and self-deception
patience for what needs time, without pushing or delaying

Who this is for:

people who have had insight, but notice that life hasn’t really changed
people who sense that something deeper wants to shift, but not through effort

For couples

Relational Clarity Session – when something is off but no one knows why

What it is:

Conversations (1:1 or with couples) where the focus is not on:

communication techniques
right and wrong
childhood analysis

But instead on:

what is being projected right now
what is being held unconsciously
what is actually true in this moment

My particular strength here:

I see relational patterns quickly
I can hold tension without taking sides
I help dissolve guilt rather than reinforce it

This is not couples therapy.
It is clarity work in the relational field.

Couple Clarity — seeing the relationship more clearly

What it is:

A structured clarity process combining:

joint couple sessions
individual sessions for each partner

The focus is not on fixing the relationship,
but on seeing what each person brings into it.

The individual sessions focus on:

your own reactions, projections, and blind spots
how you contribute to recurring conflicts
where responsibility is avoided or misplaced

The couple sessions focus on:

what is happening between you right now
how unconscious patterns meet and escalate
what becomes possible when clarity replaces blame

What this is not:

traditional couples therapy
communication training
mediation about who is right

This work does not take sides.
It restores contact with reality — individually and together.

For groups

Change & Clarity in Groups and Organizations

Most change initiatives fail not because people resist change,
but because what is actually happening in the group is not being seen.

I work with groups, teams, and organizations where:

tension is present but unspoken
decisions are delayed or endlessly discussed
responsibility is unclear or subtly avoided
good intentions coexist with frustration or fatigue

This is not classic change management.

The focus is not on:

strategies
performance frameworks
motivational interventions

But on:

what is being carried collectively but not named
how unspoken dynamics shape decisions and behavior
where clarity is needed before action can make sense

My role is to help groups see what is already influencing them,
so that change does not have to be forced.

Formats can include:

facilitated group conversations
leadership or stakeholder interviews
clarity sessions during transition or conflict
talks that orient people toward reality rather than vision

Time and scope depend on the context.
We start with a conversation.

And last
This is not for everyone — and it’s not meant to be.

Presence & Decision — for people who already “have it all”

This is for a smaller group of people — often capable, responsible, and economically stable.

People who:

function well
may be successful
yet experience emptiness, inner splitting, or a quiet sense of fear

I don’t help them become better.

I help them stop fighting themselves —
so that decisions can come from clarity rather than pressure.

This is not about improving life.
It’s about meeting it honestly.

This is where my depth truly carries.

Pricing

What you are actually paying for

You are not paying for techniques, strategies, or motivation.

You are paying for clarity.

Invest in yorself and in your relationship

Invest in yorself and in your relationship

For individuals

Single Clarity Sessions – seeing what is actually going on

Understanding & Change — clarity over time

For couples

Relational Clarity Session – when something is off but no one knows why

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Couple Clarity — seeing the relationship more clearly

For groups

Change & Clarity in Groups and Organizations

And last This is not for everyone — and it’s not meant to be. Presence & Decision — for people who already “have it all”

This is for a smaller group of people — often capable, responsible, and economically stable.

Invest in yorself
and in your relationship

Invest in yorself
and in your relationship

And last
This is not for everyone — and it’s not meant to be.

Presence & Decision — for people who already “have it all”